10 September 2008

Cataracts

Shelley had to see a pediatric ophthalmologist today because at her four month check up on Monday the pediatrician noticed the light wasn't reflecting symmetrically in both of her eyes and wanted a specialist to take a look. So we went in this morning to see the pediatric ophthalmologist. After dilating Shelley's eyes, the pediatric ophthalmologist found that Shelley has cataracts in both of her eyes. Her left eye is worst and so she has to have surgery on Tuesday to remove that lens and then she will have surgery on the other eye at a later date.

So for those of you who don't know what cataracts are and would like to know more, here is my layman explanation:

Cataracts are cloudiness on the lens of the eye. They cause your vision to blur. In Shelley's case, her eyes are developing so much right now that he brain is having a hard time focusing her vision because of the cataract that her eyes shake a little (we have never noticed it but the doctor said he noticed when she went from looking down to up) and if she doesn't get surgery immediately then as the cloudiness continues to get worse, her brain would eventually stop trying to focus her vision and shut down her eyesight, causing blindness. Shelley's left eye is more severe than her right so the ophthalmologist will do surgery first on that eye and then on her right eye in a few weeks. It makes me so sad. My little girl has to have surgery and who knows how her eye sight will be later on. We'll pray for the best. The doctor said the good news is that she does have them in both eyes. If she only had a cataract in one eye, then the brain might have already given up on that eye but since both are clouded, then the brain is still trying to make her vision work.

In older people, when ophthalmologists take out cataract lenses they can put in an artificial lens. Since Shelley's eyes are still developing, they can't put in an artificial lens until her eyes stop developing (around five, I think) so she will be wearing contacts that I put in and out.

The surgery makes me so nervous. I know everything will go well and that she is in good hands but it is hard not to worry. Because she will be getting anesthesia, she has to be fasting before she gets surgery. My poor little girl won't know why I can't feed her and why she has to be hungry but it is a necessary step and a good precaution. The doctor is trying to schedule her to be the first surgery so she doesn't have to fast as long but he is still working that out - pray that the other surgeries scheduled ahead of her are alright switching appointments with us so Shelley can go first. But more importantly, pray that the doctors will be guided during the surgery.

Keep my little girl in your thoughts and prayers. I'm so grateful for the support and love of family and friends like you.

I'll keep you posted.

11 comments:

Rachel said...

We will be praying! I am fairly certain that she will be one of the first surgeries. In my experience with kids and surgeries, you don't actually get a scheduled time until the day before and then they always go from youngest patient to oldest patient. Hopefully, that is how it is at the hospital you are going to. I'll give you a call. XXOO Rachel

Gloria said...

All will be well. There is great power in united fasting and prayer and that is what we will all be doing. More later and we send ALL our love!

Gloria said...

I am back....had to answer another phone call. Dearest Bren we were so sad to hear your tears and of course our hearts heavy for our dearest Shelley but it is good to know this now so the best can be done as soon as possible!! We will all be praying and exercise our united faith....trusting the Lord....Here comes big hugs for all of you!!

Cher said...

How sad. When Jocey was little she had to have CT scans and had to fast and not go to bed until like 3 in the morning so we had to starve her and not let her sleep...so I feel soooooo bad for you guys! I'm glad they found that out now to avoid damage in the future, we'll pray for you!

Adrienne Hansen said...

Josh and I will be praying for little Shelley! I know she will be just fine! I'm sure that Craig or Gloria have already spread the word to Dennis and Wanda-but I will make sure and tell them so they can be sure to put her in their prayers. She is such a cutie and getting so big! We can't wait to see her!

Jene said...

My heart just aches for little Shelley to have to go through this....but I know she will be a trooper...and babies are so resilient! We will for sure be fasting and praying along with the rest of the fam. Please let me know if we can do anything for you....it is hard to be so far away when we just want to grab you and hug you all!! We sure love you guys and we know that the Lord is watching out for you...and angels will be round about you to bare you up! Loves!

Danielle&Lincoln said...

O man for sure little shelley will be in our prayers! Good luck.

Vanisi Family said...

YIKES! Please let us know if we can do anything for you (watch Jorgen, bring dinner, etc)
xoxo
Suzanne

Misty said...

We will spread the word through the Kim family as well so you'll have more prayers. She's so sweet and things will be fine. I understand that it is scary though! It's hard to watch your little one go through things like this!

Lara said...

It's amazing how much a mother feels their child's trials huh? I'll be praying for you. One consolation, Caleb had to have surgery at 9 months on his cheek. I don't know if your doctor has said this but he was allowed to have clear liquids before the surgery like water and apple juice. That helped him feel tied over until after the surgery. But all doctors are different. I'm sure, no matter what happens, you will see a lot of miracles through this.

toddkmack said...

Dear Brenley and Justin:
I didn't about Shelley's problem. But we want you to know that you will all be in our prayers. We love you a lot, and we know that this is not easy for you, especially when she is so tiny still. These trials are hard, but they always make us stronger - one way or the other. We can say that because we've been through similar trials with Kimball since the day he was born. We know that God loves you, and that he will take care of your baby girl. We love you and we admire your family so much. Jorgen was so kind to Kimball in nursery today. He's sort of Kimball's bodyguard, he makes sure that Ryan doesn't steal Kimball's ball. Brenley, you are a great mom. Even though we are still unpacking, if you need help with Jorgen feel free to bring him over and he can play - or if you just need a break or someone to talk to who's also seen their kids suffer through health issues.

Todd and Betty